Silence Is Golden: A Sensual Romantic Evening

Silence Is Golden: A Sensual Romantic Evening

If you are interested in exploring the sensual side of life this weekend, or maybe even planning a surprise romantic evening for your love, this idea might appeal to you. As you know, communication plays a vital role in any relationship. There is, however, more than one way to communicate. A lot of times, expressing your feelings and emotions without words can create a much bigger effect on your love than simply telling them how you feel. The evening detailed below is designed to enhance your communication with your partner through the use of sight, smell, taste and touch. If done correctly it will leave your lover in absolutely no doubt about how much you love them, and will create memories that can last a lifetime.


* A secluded area of the room, preferably a corner

* An air mattress or something soft and comfortable to lay on
- A collection of soft comforters or blankets would work well
- Satin or silk sheets if possible

* A collection of soft pillows

* Decorations in the form of plants, flowers and rose petals

* Soft romantic lighting

* A large fruit, cheese and/or deli style meat platter
- Could be catered from a local cafe

* Chocolate and other romantic finger foods

* Soft romantic background music, such as sitar music

* Sensual props that invoke different feelings, such as feathers, a sponge with a bowl of warm water, some soft material, chocolate syrup etc.

* If this is something you are doing to your partner, you may want to include a blind fold

* Whatever else you might want to include

The idea here is to communicate as much love and romance to your partner without either of you saying anything. Start off by sensually exploring different areas of your partner's body through the use of your fingertips, lips and the sense of smell. Try to stay away from the erogenous zones to start with. You want to take things slowly and thoroughly enjoy each moment. Pamper your love by feeding them different foods while looking deeply into their eyes. Basically, you want to do as much as you can to make your partner feel incredibly special by exploring all the different avenues of communication while saying as little as possible. After doing this you will soon discover that silence actually is golden!


Planning An All Nighter

Planning An All Nighter
How fantastic would it be to take an already exquisite experience and then double, triple or even quadruple (and more!) it? Engaging in an all nighter at least once every few months is a great way to infuse some of the early passion you may have lost or put aside because of life stresses. If you're a new couple, it can be a fantastic way to learn more about each other's sexual preferences. The number of ways to go about your all nighter are as varied as each couple. Some couple's prefer to prolong their passion until the very end of their experience, while others treat it more as a marathon of sensual experiences. Either way you choose, here are few tips you'll want to keep in mind.

1. Make sure you both have the next day free. You'll need it for catching up on your sleep!

2. Have an idea of what you want to do the entire night so boredom doesn't become an issue, but don't worry if things don't go as planned. Spontaneity always creates a better mood setter.

3. Take it slowly. You have all night. Lavish and revel your partner.

4. Make sure you have something handy to eat and drink. You don't want your partner to be distracted by the thoughts of being hungry for something other than you! Use a bit of creativity and choose food that can be incorporated into your sensual play.

If you're not sure how to plan an all nighter, use the following sample as a guide. Remember to keep in mind your partner's preferences when setting the stage for your night. Times where you would make love have been left out to allow for the mood of each moment to shine through. Your actual lovemaking can take place at numerous intervals during the plan, or the plan can be designed to lead up to a climax of lovemaking at the end.

Approx. Time

Sensual Activity
30 mins.

Start your night off with a luxurious bubble bath or a steamy hot shower. Take your time enjoying being next to each other in such an intimate space.
45 mins.

After you've dried each other off, exchange sensual massages to continue setting the mood for your evening. Light a few candles, and play some of your favorite mood music.
45 mins.

Now is an excellent time to find something to nibble on (this may or may not include your partner!) for a while.
1 to 2 hours

Pull out your favorite romantic board game, or play a few of your own games such as: truth or dare or strip poker.
1 hour

After your sensual play, put on a favorite CD and share your favorite sensual memories with your partner. Talk about what you like, or what you like to try.
1 1/2 to 3 hours Now it's time to keep up the momentum with one of your favorite sensual movies like Henry and June or 9 1/2 Weeks.
1 to 2 hours When your all night is coming to a close finish it off by cooking breakfast for your partner. Then give them a final reminder of a night they'll never forget--you!
Total Time: 6 1/2 to 10 hours!


Love In The Rain

Love In The Rain
Create a memorable encounter of misty rain and love!

Three of the top ten sexual fantasies in our Top 10 Sexual Fantasies poll included water. Create your own sensual fantasy with this Love In The Rain encounter! Just gather your ingredients, turn on your shower and follow the easy steps located below.

+ plants, tropical if possible
+ fresh towels
+ rain/ocean CD
+ candlelight
+ woodsy smelling incense
+ soap(s)
+ loofahs, back brush, etc.
+ sheets or spare towels
+ robe(s)
+ waterproof toys, if desired
+ basket

1. Give your partner this printable invitation.

2. Drape spare towels or sheets to cover entire floor and toilet area.

3. Put plants in as many places possible such as sink, hanging locations, and floor.

4. Position your candles, incense and fresh towels.

5. Place soap, loofah, back brush, toys and other items in basket. Place basket within easy reach of shower.

6. Bring in a portable radio, and get music ready to play.

7. Get dressed in robe and nothing else. :)

8. A few minutes before your partner is expected to arrive, light your candles and incense and turn on music and shower.

9. When your partner arrives, undress them and lead them into your tropical rain seduction.